Posts made in April, 2012

Leaving Room for the Mystery

Posted by on Apr 30, 2012 in All, Making it work, Uncategorized | 4 comments

Leaving Room for the Mystery

A dear friend send me a scan of a card she had gotten from her husband  and she thought it would be great blog fodder. And as much as I would like to show you the card I am thinking that posting it here would be diving straight in  the deep end of copyright violation so instead I give you my artful rendition of the card. ( Don’t be hatin on my artistic skills..ok?)   So as you can plainly see the drawing shows a husband sitting on the throne reading a book with his pants around his ankles while his wife takes a bath and shaves the stubby growth from her legs in possible preparation for a night of ~romance~. My friend who sent the card said that it struck...

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Finding Your Lost Naughty Girl

Posted by on Apr 28, 2012 in All, Body Image, Making it work, Sexual Education, Stuff Your Mom Never Told You | Comments Off

Finding Your Lost Naughty Girl

Giving Your Desire a Kick Start – Best Books on Sex  Welcome- this article first ran over on D.A. and was so well received that I have migrated is over here for your enjoyment. How long has it been since you surprised the hell out of your husband and initiated sex? Not acquiesced to his begging, not grudgingly agreed or at the very worst agreed that he could have his way but you were going to try to get some sleep? ( Don’t say you don’t know what I mean) – When is that last time you knocked him over, took his breath away and  left him not knowing which way was up? If you have to count the days on two hands you might be in...

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Consider the Kiss – Kissing your way to a better Marriage

Posted by on Apr 22, 2012 in All, Making it work | 1 comment

Consider the Kiss – Kissing your way to a better Marriage

If you ask Websters they will tell you that a kiss is a “Touch with the lips as a sign of love, sexual desire, reverence, or greeting.” But I  am betting that it is also a barometer  of a healthy marriage. Or at least that there is a correlation in over all marriage satisfaction and the number of times a couple kisses per day. Let’s face it, in the day to day few of us are snogging like hot and heavy teenagers in the backseat of a car on some secluded street but the fact is that even as adults we need this sort of thrilling mouth-to-mouth resuscitation to bring the breath of life back into our marriages. Bringing Back the Kiss If...

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Curvy Girls- A Book Review

Posted by on Apr 20, 2012 in All, Hot Products, Uncategorized | Comments Off

Curvy Girls- A Book Review

Last month when I vlogged about what is NOT a vibrator I gave you a little teaser about a fantastic new book that I just got my hands on. Curvy Girls: Erotica for Women While I don’t think erotica has to be pointed towards just a certain size this book is a fantastic treat since it hits so close to home that the scenes did make me tingle with recognition. For some weight is something we struggle with and feel some shame about. But for some others the generous expanses of delight held in our breasts, bellies and on our backsides is the stuff of sexual liberation and celebration. Like a gorgeous old master painting come to sensual life. Curvy Girls: Erotica for...

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Sex During Menstruation

Posted by on Apr 19, 2012 in All, Healthy is Sexy, Hot Products, Stuff Your Mom Never Told You | 11 comments

Sex During Menstruation

      If sex is a taboo topic for most then sex during menstruation is the deep dark (red) secret. The fact is that besides the possible mess there is no physical reason not to have sex during menstruation, it can feel amazing! In fact sex during your period actually has a lot going for it. Orgasm is a fantastic cramp reliever. It releases the built up tension in the uterus  as well as releasing lovely hormones into your blood stream that make it easier to relax. Of course there is always the issue of the mess. Lucky for us there is the Softcup by Instead. This product can be worn during menstrual sex and it keeps everything quite neat and means...

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