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Is your Blog Killing Your Marriage?

Posted by on Oct 17, 2012 in All, Making it work, Stuff Your Mom Never Told You, Uncategorized | Comments Off

Is your Blog Killing Your Marriage?

  There are a lot of ways to kill a marriage, cheating, and cold indifference to name two, but what about blogging? I honestly had not given this third option much thought until attending a blogging conference this past weekend.  I will also say that I am struggling in how to talk about this subject without sounding like a condescending bitch.. so forgive me if I verge off in that direction since it is not my intention. Being a Sex Blogger You see it works this way- tell people you have a sex and marriage blog and you are an...

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Well Woman Exam- What to Expect after 40 and What Might Be Missing.

Posted by on Sep 29, 2012 in All, Healthy is Sexy, Making it work, Menopause Musings, Sexual Education, Stuff Your Mom Never Told You | 3 comments

Well Woman Exam- What to Expect after 40 and What Might Be Missing.

  Ah yes, the yearly Well Woman visit, about as popular as April 15  and the tax man and yet a very important part of over all health for women of all ages.  ( I see you cringing and looking at the calendar.. yes you are over-do.. stop now and call to make an appointment!) For those with insurance a Well Woman visit is usually a fully covered once a year event that is part of your basic insurance package. For those without insurance things are more difficult but worth pursuing in a bid for over all health care.  Two resources are Liv...

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The Possibility of Post 40 Passion

Posted by on Sep 24, 2012 in All, Making it work, Menopause Musings | 4 comments

The Possibility of Post 40 Passion

  I woke today feeling sore and  bit tired.. no, not the effects of old age creeping up on me. Around these parts birthdays are a week long event and you bet that means lots of after dark celebrating to go along with the cake and ice cream. The husband turned 59 this weekend.. call me a party animal. Oh, but wait.. the world does not want to read about or think about what my dear friend Chloe calls “Old Lady Sex.  You know, sex that anyone who is more than 10 years older than you is having. Good lord knows that as far as media...

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Dressed to Flirt

Posted by on Sep 6, 2012 in All, Body Image, Stuff Your Mom Never Told You | 3 comments

Dressed to Flirt

Mind you I am pretty sure that my husband or just about any husband would accept advances from their wife even if said wife was wearing a burlap sack  but if the wife is anything like me she does not feel much like flirting if she feels that she does not look good or feel good in her own skin. While it is a trite axiom ” when you look good you feel good” and it is the truth. This can be proven again and again. It is the reason worker productivity drops off when an office goes too causal and why students in uniforms do...

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Nail Care as a Part of Self Care

Posted by on Aug 23, 2012 in Beauty DIY, Hot Products, Stuff Your Mom Never Told You, Uncategorized | Comments Off

Nail Care as a Part of Self Care

  Today on the 1HM Facebook group I mentioned that how we feel about how we look has a lot to do with how we are behaving in our marriage. So if we are shunning ourselves in the mirror there is a good chance we are not fully sharing ourselves in our marriage. The challenge is what to do about it! It does not even have to be something all that big that is dragging us down. As Summer draws to a close I noticed that my feet had taken a bit of a backseat in the care area and thus I was more inclined to hide them under the covers then to...

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A Little French Never Hurt Anyone.

Posted by on Aug 5, 2012 in All, Body Image, Making it work | 2 comments

A Little French Never Hurt Anyone.

  I read a most interesting book this week, Bringing up Bebe by Pamela Druckerman.  It might seem a bit odd of me to mention a book on an American mother’s reflection of her life and baby raising in Paris and yet this book is full of intriguing commentary when it comes to finding that balance between being a parent and being a partner. More to the point the American preoccupation with parenting to the degree that we become little more than sexless lumps in the neurotic  pursuit of making sure our young ones get everything...

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Sex and Memory Foam

Posted by on Jul 30, 2012 in All, Healthy is Sexy, Hot Products, Uncategorized | 2 comments

Sex and Memory Foam

  Well it seems that the sleeping public is taking a stand.. or is that a lie-down ( lay -down?) on the issue of getting a good night sleep and good sex is the  possible loser. According to a report in Barrons  couples are opting for deeper sleep at the possible risk of throwing a monkey wrench into their sex life with the purchase of the oh so wonderful memory foam  sleep experience. The claim by some is that a good romp on a memory foam mattress if more difficult than on the traditional spring coil mattress. As the very...

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Playing Favorites – Lelo Pleasure Objects

Posted by on Jul 22, 2012 in All, Hot Products | 2 comments

Playing Favorites  – Lelo Pleasure Objects

  Today’s post is brought to you by the sexy fine folks at Adam & Eve   While it is usually not cool to play favorites I think we can all agree that having a favorite brand of pleasure product is just fine. In fact it is more than fine, it is rather awesome! So when Adam and Eve asked me if I would like to write about my favorite I jumped at the chance to tell you about Lelo. Lelo objects are amazing and to know that one company consistently  creates items that are not only  beautiful but wonderfully sexy and functional,...

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Sexy Bridal Shower Gift Basket

Posted by on Jul 11, 2012 in All, Dress Your Sexy, Hot Products, Uncategorized | Comments Off

Sexy Bridal Shower Gift Basket

So with Summer comes lots of weddings as well has quite a few very hot and sexy bridal showers!  Gone are the days when the blushing bride leaves for her wedding night with little more than a whispered ” good luck” from the mother of the bride. Today’s bride  leaves prepared no matter if she choose to have sex or not before her wedding night. Bridal showers are a great way to stock up the bride to be with all the items she might need  for those first blissful few months of matrimony as well as for years to come.  Cheap...

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Sexual Frequency – ” Just right” is different for every couple.

Posted by on Jul 7, 2012 in All, Making it work | Comments Off

Sexual Frequency – ” Just right” is different for every couple.

  Comparisons are never healthy – What is healthy is finding the sexual frequency that supports and fosters a happy marriage. Are you and your mate in the same groove or are you working towards a common ground on the...

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