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Is your Blog Killing Your Marriage?
There are a lot of ways to kill a marriage, cheating, and cold indifference to name two, but what about blogging? I honestly had not given this third option much thought until attending a blogging conference this past weekend. I will also say that I am struggling in how to talk about this subject without sounding like a condescending bitch.. so forgive me if I verge off in that direction since it is not my intention. Being a Sex Blogger You see it works this way- tell people you have a sex and marriage blog and you are an...
read moreWell Woman Exam- What to Expect after 40 and What Might Be Missing.
Ah yes, the yearly Well Woman visit, about as popular as April 15 and the tax man and yet a very important part of over all health for women of all ages. ( I see you cringing and looking at the calendar.. yes you are over-do.. stop now and call to make an appointment!) For those with insurance a Well Woman visit is usually a fully covered once a year event that is part of your basic insurance package. For those without insurance things are more difficult but worth pursuing in a bid for over all health care. Two resources are Liv...
read moreThe Possibility of Post 40 Passion
I woke today feeling sore and bit tired.. no, not the effects of old age creeping up on me. Around these parts birthdays are a week long event and you bet that means lots of after dark celebrating to go along with the cake and ice cream. The husband turned 59 this weekend.. call me a party animal. Oh, but wait.. the world does not want to read about or think about what my dear friend Chloe calls “Old Lady Sex. You know, sex that anyone who is more than 10 years older than you is having. Good lord knows that as far as media...
read moreDressed to Flirt
Mind you I am pretty sure that my husband or just about any husband would accept advances from their wife even if said wife was wearing a burlap sack but if the wife is anything like me she does not feel much like flirting if she feels that she does not look good or feel good in her own skin. While it is a trite axiom ” when you look good you feel good” and it is the truth. This can be proven again and again. It is the reason worker productivity drops off when an office goes too causal and why students in uniforms do...
read moreNail Care as a Part of Self Care
Today on the 1HM Facebook group I mentioned that how we feel about how we look has a lot to do with how we are behaving in our marriage. So if we are shunning ourselves in the mirror there is a good chance we are not fully sharing ourselves in our marriage. The challenge is what to do about it! It does not even have to be something all that big that is dragging us down. As Summer draws to a close I noticed that my feet had taken a bit of a backseat in the care area and thus I was more inclined to hide them under the covers then to...
read moreA Little French Never Hurt Anyone.
I read a most interesting book this week, Bringing up Bebe by Pamela Druckerman. It might seem a bit odd of me to mention a book on an American mother’s reflection of her life and baby raising in Paris and yet this book is full of intriguing commentary when it comes to finding that balance between being a parent and being a partner. More to the point the American preoccupation with parenting to the degree that we become little more than sexless lumps in the neurotic pursuit of making sure our young ones get everything...
read moreSex and Memory Foam
Well it seems that the sleeping public is taking a stand.. or is that a lie-down ( lay -down?) on the issue of getting a good night sleep and good sex is the possible loser. According to a report in Barrons couples are opting for deeper sleep at the possible risk of throwing a monkey wrench into their sex life with the purchase of the oh so wonderful memory foam sleep experience. The claim by some is that a good romp on a memory foam mattress if more difficult than on the traditional spring coil mattress. As the very...
read morePlaying Favorites – Lelo Pleasure Objects
Today’s post is brought to you by the sexy fine folks at Adam & Eve While it is usually not cool to play favorites I think we can all agree that having a favorite brand of pleasure product is just fine. In fact it is more than fine, it is rather awesome! So when Adam and Eve asked me if I would like to write about my favorite I jumped at the chance to tell you about Lelo. Lelo objects are amazing and to know that one company consistently creates items that are not only beautiful but wonderfully sexy and functional,...
read moreSexy Bridal Shower Gift Basket
So with Summer comes lots of weddings as well has quite a few very hot and sexy bridal showers! Gone are the days when the blushing bride leaves for her wedding night with little more than a whispered ” good luck” from the mother of the bride. Today’s bride leaves prepared no matter if she choose to have sex or not before her wedding night. Bridal showers are a great way to stock up the bride to be with all the items she might need for those first blissful few months of matrimony as well as for years to come. Cheap...
read moreSexual Frequency – ” Just right” is different for every couple.
Comparisons are never healthy – What is healthy is finding the sexual frequency that supports and fosters a happy marriage. Are you and your mate in the same groove or are you working towards a common ground on the...
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